Coping with the Loss of a Pet Cat

Anyone coping with the loss of a beloved pet cat will know just how upsetting and devastating a grief it can be.  But often others, who may not have ever owned a kitty, just don't understand.  

Here's a story of a man grieving the loss of his pet cat which just shows that anyone can fall in love with a feline fur baby and suffer a huge loss when they pass.  

One day as I was getting into my car to go to work I spotted my neighbour leaning against the farm fence opposite my home. He was sobbing, obviously very upset. I asked if I could help and he apologized and said he felt stupid crying like that but he had just found his pet cat dead. As he was a six foot tall Squadron Leader he felt embarrassed - one of the old school who thought that men shouldn’t cry.

We had a chat and I told him crying was the best thing he could do. It is a natural emotion to feel grief and sadness when a pet is lost. He was then going home to break the sad news to his wife and children. 

Grieving the Loss of Your Pet Cat Is Natural 

Anyone who has lost a beloved pet will know what a devastating loss it is. The house seems empty without the welcome home each night. The purring as they jump on your lap or the gentle feel of fur curling round your legs. The unconditional love they give you and the gifts of dead mice on the door step!

Cats are very independent - they have their own territories, they can climb fences or trees so come and go as they please, but they choose you to come home to and that creates a special bond which makes the loss even harder.  

Young kittens can provide hours of pleasure as they explore the new world playing with boxes or wool, hiding in tiny spaces in cupboards and jumping out when you least expect it. Cat lovers know that each one has their own personality like in the show CATS, some real characters.

Stroking our pets is therapeutic.  It is calming and lowers the blood pressure and you always have a friend nearby when they are home.  If you live alone then the loss of a cat can create an enormous gap in your life.  

How to Mourn the Loss of Your Feline Fur Baby

Grief for your pet cat is real. Tears are never far away when mourning a beloved cat and coping with everyday life can be a struggle at first. Sadly friends who have never owned pets cannot begin to know how you feel, this is their loss. You are not alone with your sadness.  Animal lovers everywhere recognize your loss and send you support.  

Read more about grief for pets and how to cope with your loss.  

There are sympathy poems and pet loss quotes on this site to give you comfort.  We have also got a page on pet funerals.  This focuses on dogs but you can adapt for any pet.  This is a very good way for children to come to terms with loss when there is a small ceremony in the garden for their beloved cat. 

Cat Sympathy Quotes

Here are a few moving quotes about cats to uplift you.  Some of them are available as greetings cards which support the work of this site.  Just click on the cards on this page for more information.  

  • "Cats leave pawprints on our hearts"  - Unknown
  • “What greater gift than the love of a cat.”   -  Charles Dickens
  • “The smallest feline is a masterpiece.”  -  Leonardo da Vinci
  • “There are no ordinary cats.”  -  Colette
  • “I believe cats to be spirits come to earth. A cat, I am sure, could walk on a cloud without coming through.”  - Jules Verne
  • "There will be a forever place in your heart for your faithful friend" - Unknown

REcommended Read: 

Related Pages:

Tips for Pet Cremation

Beautiful Cat Cremation Urns for Ashes

Pet Loss Keepsakes to Help Your Treasure Their Memory

Pet Memorial Jewelry

> > Loss of a Pet Cat

Sales from our pages result in a small commission to us which helps us to continue our work supporting the grieving.  

Memorial Magnolia Tree

The Magnolia is one of the earth's oldest plants, with a spectacular flower which dates back 95 million years.  What a beautiful specimen to commemorate a life. 

These trees are grown by the foremost magnolia nursery in the country and they will send a variety most suited to the recipient's climate. 

The flowers in spring will bring joy to the bereaved and help to heal their heart.

Please Support this Site with a Donation

If you have found our site helpful, please consider a small donation towards our running costs.  It is expensive in time and money to maintain the site and we try to keep it as ad free as we can! 

If everyone were to donate just one dollar, it would cover our costs.  A little more will help us to expand and reach even more people. 

Please note we are not a not-for-profit organisation, so you won't be able to claim this donation against your tax!  But we do need to eat and pay the phone bill!

You can use your paypal account but you don't need to belong to paypal to use this secure payment button, it accepts all major debit and credit cards. We do not collect any of your personal information when you make a payment. 

We thank you and all our readers thank you for whatever you can afford. 

Join us on Facebook for articles, support, discussion and more.  Click 'Like' below.

Sign up for our newsletter and receive:

"The 10 Most Important Things You Can Do
To Survive Your Grief And Get On With Life"

Our free downloadable and printable document "The 10 Most Important Things You Can Do To Survive Your Grief And Get On With Life" will help you to be positive day to day.  

The 10 points are laid out like a poem on two pretty pages which you can pin on your fridge door to help you every day! 

All you have to do to receive this free document is fill in your email address below. 

You will also receive our newsletter which we send out from time to time with our newest comforting and helpful information.   You can unsubscribe any time you like, and don't worry, your email address is totally safe with us. 

Enter Your E-mail Address
Enter Your First Name (optional)

Don't worry — your e-mail address is totally secure.
I promise to use it only to send you Grief and Sympathy News.