Death of Boyfriend's Father

My boyfriend's father died a couple of days ago. My boyfriend is on another continent and won't be able to make it back for the service. I don't know his parents or extended family very well but I would like to express my sympathy to his mother as well as give my support to him. Is it appropriate for me to send her a sympathy card and attend the service?

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Nov 16, 2017
Your Sympathy Would Be Appreciated
by: Betty from Grief and Sympathy

Thank you for writing to us. We are sorry to hear about the loss of your boyfriend's father.

It would be kind of you to send a sympathy card and attend the service. I feel that your boyfriend and his parents would appreciate your support.

Have a look at our page: Helping Others Cope with Grief. It may assist you.

With best wishes

The Grief and Sympathy team.



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